This is how I changed my mindset from investing in materialistic things to investing in experiences, and why it changed my life.
The idea that buying the perfect house, driving the best car, etc. leads to happiness has been prominent in the 21st century.
The idea that buying the perfect house, driving the best car, wearing the trendiest clothes, and posting status updates on the latest high-tech devices leads to happiness has been prominent in the 21st century.
Rarely, have we ever worked with the same intensity for trips, outings, etc. with friends & family.
The problem here is that the thrill of purchasing materialistic things fades away real quick. But, experiences last for a lifetime.
The problem here is that the thrill & excitement of owning a materialistic thing fades away real quick. But, experiences last for a lifetime.
Being social animals, it is logical that true happiness comes from time spent with friends & family. It is way more fulfilling.
I am sure you already know this. But, I am also sure, that you haven’t implemented/ realized it yet.
How can I change this mindset?
One of the best ways to change our mindset is to let our past guide the shift through previous experiences. We never realize this way because we are too busy with the outside world, that we forget to interact with the inside world.
In your head, go back in time to remember two distinct events.
You bought your favorite gadget, car, etc.
You went on an outing with your friends/ family
Now, deeply observe the change in your feelings between the two events.
What you will experience is, while thinking about the first event, there is no feeling. It’s just like, “Yea, I got it. Great”. However, with the second, there is a smile on your face, and an urge to live that moment again.
I will leave the rest up to you. Compare both the feelings, and decide which one you wish to keep.
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